The way I deal with problems: I don't.
I live with my problems, and either they get sorted out or they fade away. I stayed in 2 Trig last year even though I was [failing], and if anything it helped me deal with stress better. Rarely to I take action to solve a big problem in my life. It's never gotten to the point where I need to act.
I hate to call it this, but I was in a relationship. A blood-sucking destructive relationship. And only recently did I notice that it wasn't working, and either I would blow up on her or implode on myself. So I just decided this afternoon that I didn't want to deal with her, I called her and said (through some choice wording) that I no longer wanted to be her friend. The dilemma is now that I'm going to have to deal with it tomorrow. I'm not going back on my word, I've convinced myself that it's for the better that I no longer have a best friend.
I don't fear her, she's not my problem. I'm afraid of what my friends will think of me, and that I won't be able to explain this to them. Most of all, I don't want them to pick sides. I don't want my friends to shun either one of us, and a great split between us (or leaving me out altogether). I like all of my friends, just because I stopped being friends with one doesn't mean that I hate the others.
Drama drama drama- I can't believe what I've created.